Why are people so judgmental, (me including) especially with ourselves?
I mean. How do we will treat a child? I hope with a lot of patience and L o v e.
B u t. We aren’t children anymore. I know this. We H a v e T o do a lot.
We have to achieve things. We have to be good in everything we do. We have to be better.
And have to do more, preferably better than anyone else (on this planet). Besides lookin’ damn good (preferably, better than anyone else) while we become better.
And every time we are thinking about being good and being better, we say to ourselves subconsciously: “You are not good enough and you have to become a better one.”
So you judge. But, you are neither good nor bad. You are you.
You making an I n d i v i d u a l experience becoming anything (until you die). That’s the truth.
And that’s the point of B e i n g something. The desire of being special and escape the fear of being a nobody. Starting with C o m p a r i s o n. Ending with judgments and separation from others.
But what make life so precious? I say the people do.
So, why aren’t we just kind to each other? Is this so difficult?
The point is, you have to be kind to yourself first. Cause the relationship to yourself makes the tone of every relationship you will have.
Keep that in mind. We are A l l fuckin’ awesome. We are all special (and than we die. Just saying).
Use your time meaningfully. Being kind is beautiful.
Starting by yourself. Ending with others.
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