Why are people so judgmental, (me including) especially with ourselves?
I mean, how would we treat a child? I hope with a lot of patience and love.
But we aren’t children anymore. I know that.
We have to achieve things. We have to be good in everything we do. We have to be better, have to do more, preferably better than anyone else (on this planet). Besides looking damn good (preferably, better than anyone else) while we become better.
Every time we are thinking about being good and being better, we’re saing to ourselves subconsciously: “You are not good enough and you have to become a better one.”
So you judge. But, you are neither good nor bad. You are you.
You make an individual experience and then become anything (until you die). That’s the truth.
The point of being something, is the desire of being special and escape the fear of being a nobody. Starting with comparison, ending with judgments and separation from others.
But what makes life so precious? I would say the people do.
Why aren’t we just kind to each other? Without judging and comparing.
The point is, you have to be kind to yourself first. Because the relationship to yourself makes the tone of every relationship you will have.
Keep that in mind. We are all fucking awesome.
We are all special (and than we die. Just saying).
Use your time meaningfully. Being kind is beautiful.
Starting by yourself.
Ending with others.
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