I know they are not bad person. Not at all. And that’s something you have to keep in mind, they didn’t treat you bad or make you feel badly with purpose. Often something is wrong with themselves and they take it out on others. They usually really care about you, this make it so hard to leave. Because you feel, they love you but simultaneously it feels bad.
In that moment I was so so angry. And after a lot of conflicts I walked away for good. Best decision I made. Of course it wasn’t easy and I had a hard time to pass and I am still in processed but now I can say, I feel free again. I had not only the persons let go but also the anger and all the bad feelings I had inside.
Nobody can help you. A lot of your friends will want to give it a try, but for me it was really exhausting.
They tell you things like: “It’s better this way” or “you deserve better” or sometimes they give you clever sayings like: ‘When someone treats you like an option, help them arrow their choices by removing yourself from the equation. – is that simple.’
And you thing… wow thank you for you super good advice, wise guy… (shut up and let me be down as long as I want to..) Just kidding. What I mean is, you have to go alone through this process because otherwise you will end up repeating this experience all over again.